change

change is something that will occur naturally. it happens in a slow, non-rhythmic way. it happens without you yourself realising. is it scary? yes, it is for me. it is scary because you are not in control of it. the environment changes and you adapt to it by your natural instincts. you adapt so as to survive. sometimes, i wonder the change in me is beneficial for me or does it do me harm? am i a product of the society that we are in? are we naturally moulded or do we choose the way we are moulded. how does the change occur? why did it occur and when does it occur? unpredictable, i would say. every major event changes a person. but seemingly, the type of change depends on the individual. do you dwell on and complain about everyone, or do you choose to forget about what happened and move on? many people chose to dwell on. pride has gotten into them and i am one of them. but does it constitutes that dwelling on a necessary bad? dwelling on is a form of perseverence, choosing to forget may be a form of running away. what is change. who defines it? how does it work? have you ever thought about it?
have i opened my mind? have i changed for the better of myself? i realised that there is no definite answer. you are who you are.... that is not right or wrong since life has always been a double-edged sword.